How many of us truly love ourselves? How many of us know what it is to truly love the self? Really! What does it feel like? This question has come up for me tonight because I stumbled upon a documentary about food called “Food Matters” https://foodmatters.tv. This film speaks of the daunting truth about the food, health, and pharmaceutical industries; they are structured and operated to make money off of you and me. BROKEN DOWN: Most of what we eat is designed to make us sick so that we are forced to see our doctor in hopes of him/her prescribing pharmaceuticals that will pacify whatever is going on with us. This leads me back to the topic. Do we love ourselves? Because if people truly have love for themselves, why on Earth would we allow these types of dealings to continue? Now, for many the answer is, “I didn’t know this was happening,”. (The signs are all around you. Are your eyes not open?) What about the rest of us, including myself, who know better but continue to dwell in the fire? I mean, how is it that I can justify eating a quick, and I do mean quick, lunch at Jack in the Box and expect myself to function as a loving, light filled human being I profess to be. Okay, don’t get me wrong I am definitely a loving, light filled person
, but my point is that my behavior conflicts with what I know to be true and on some, maybe subliminal level, I am telling myself that I am not worthy of everything great. This, my friends, is the source of self sabotage. Now, I know I am not the only one living in deceit and self love deficit. There are many of you who share this same dysfunction though maybe not in the sense of feeding yourself food you KNOW you shouldn’t eat, but by way of contradictory behavior, meaning your behavior contradicts your fundamental beliefs and/or knowledge. If more of us actually stopped for a self love check-in more often I, guarantee there’d be less darkness in the world. So, I challenge you, the one who resonates with this post, to give yourself permission to be extraordinary. I challenge you to love yourself like you’ve never loved anyone else. If there is a scintilla of self sabotage, self doubt, self loathing, or fear residing within you, I challenge you as well as me to dead it! Let’s do this together for the sake of love itself. When we become greater lovers of self then, and only then can we truly love others. Please do not confuse this with narcacism. This is not the same thing! The kind of love I speak of is of a spiritual source and not empty insecurity.
What the world needs now is love sweet love…and THAT is one of the greatest benefits of self love.
Welcome to the Good lyfe!

